Are you Effing Kidding Me?!?

Okay, so we met with the counselor last Wednesday and she told him he needed to take a break from Facebook and messaging with Sherry...now I thought we both assumed it would be at least until the next appointment.  Silly me, thinking we were both on the same page about something.

Anyway, so that night he didn't do Facebook or talk to Sherry.  So the next night we were driving to the movies and he mentioned that he had told Sam about the appointment with the counselor and that she had said that the relationship he had with Sherry was 'an affair' and that he didn't agree.  I asked, "Did you tell her that you were banned from Facebook?"  He went nuts.  He said he wasn't banned!  Who's mincing words now, my friend!  Any way, when we got home that night, he asked if he could just check his Facebook, 'real quick'.  I said that he was a grown up and that he could interpret taking a break how ever he wanted.  He has been 'checking his Facebook real quick' every day since then. And if I post something, he'll say, "Let me look at mine to see how it looks."

Then Monday night he got on Facebook after I went to bed!  And posted comments!

So then Tuesday night we were on the computer together, doing something fairly important, and 'Ping' Sherry pops up.  And he goes, 'Let me talk to her.'  And I say you're not supposed to.  And he goes, 'I don't think that was what was said...' Really are you Effing kidding me?!?  Did we go to the same counseling appointment?  First he goes on Facebook willy-nilly and now he just decides because she pings him, he's gonna talk to her!

So I said sure, talk to her...

So instead of telling her the truth, that the counselor told him to cool it, and you'd think he'd be honest with her since they are such good friends, she is his best friend after all, he says that he decided to stay off the computer and not spend so much time chatting and spend more time with the family...HA!

And then today, the day he was supposed to bring home dinner, and for the first time in who knows how long, it wasn't going to be my responsibility, I was waiting on a text that says, 'What should I pick up for dinner?'  and instead I get a text that says 'I'm going out to dinner with Sam.  Actually I am already out to dinner with Sam and I will be late getting home.  You can come join us if you want'

Seriously, I was in tears.  There was nothing here for dinner.  The dishes needed done.  I had to go to the store.  It was so inconsiderate.  I texted him back, but he just blew me off.  He called and said we'd talk about it when he got home, but he hasn't said a word to me since he got here.  Selfish jerk!
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Okay, so we just had a talk about this evening, and he said I over-reacted because he did invited me so he was being considerate.  And he offered to go to the store on his way home...which means we would've had dinner at like 8-8:30.  That would've gone over well with the kids - he gets to go out to dinner with his friend and the rest of get grocery store dinner really late...

So yeah, some how, I'm the bad guy again!